Monday, December 10, 2012

Why Is it Impossible to Stop Thinking


Why Is it Impossible to Stop Thinking

Why is it impossible to stop thinking, to render the mind a complete blank?
—John Hendrickson, via email

Barry Gordon, professor of neurology and cognitive science at the Johns Hopkins University School of Medicine, replies:

Forgive your mind this minor annoyance because it has worked to save your life—or more accurately, the lives of your ancestors. Most likely you have not needed to worry whether the rustling in the underbrush is a rabbit or a leopard, or had to identify the best escape route on a walk by the lake, or to wonder whether the funny pattern in the grass is a snake or dead branch. Yet these were life-or-death decisions to our ancestors. Optimal moment-to-moment readiness requires a brain that is working constantly, an effort that takes a great deal of energy. (To put this in context, the modern human brain is only 2 percent of our body weight, but it uses 20 percent of our resting energy.) Such an energy-hungry brain, one that is constantly seeking clues, connections and mechanisms, is only possible with a mammalian metabolism tuned to a constant high rate.

Constant thinking is what propelled us from being a favorite food on the savanna—and a species that nearly went extinct—to becoming the most accomplished life-form on this planet. Even in the modern world, our mind always churns to find hazards and opportunities in the data we derive from our surroundings, somewhat like a search engine server. Our brain goes one step further, however, by also thinking proactively, a task that takes even more mental processing.

So even though most of us no longer worry about leopards in the grass, we do encounter new dangers and opportunities: employment, interest rates, "70 percent off" sales and swindlers offering $20 million for just a small investment on our part. Our primate heritage brought us another benefit: the ability to navigate a social system. As social animals, we must keep track of who's on top and who's not and who might help us and who might hurt us. To learn and understand this information, our mind is constantly calculating "what if?" scenarios. What do I have to do to advance in the workplace or social or financial hierarchy? What is the danger here? The opportunity?

For these reasons, we benefit from having a brain that works around the clock, even if it means dealing with intrusive thoughts from time to time.

This article was originally published with the title Ask the Brains.


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Sunday, December 9, 2012

Bishop Oyedepo: I Didn't Build Covenant University with Tithes and Offerings


Bishop Oyedepo: I Didn't Build Covenant University with Tithes and Offerings


The respected general overseer of Winners Chapel, Bishop David Oyedepo has reacted to insinuations in certain quarters that he is ripping off church members through Tithes and Offering to live in affluence and cruising in private jets, while some of his congregation do not have enough food to eat.

Below is how the man of God reacted to the allegations:
"The last time Church paid my salary was December 1987, nobody heard it, not even the Ministers in the church until 1997 and church members didn't hear this until 2007″. 
"In January of 1988, my wife asked me of money for feeding and I told her I had give my salary to God, and that was the last time she ever had to ask for feeding till date."

Responding to accusations that he uses poor people's money to build universities and turn around to fix school fees that the same poor people can't afford to pay, Bishop Oyedepo simply said:
"Covenant university was built within 7 months without any collection of any one naira -- tithes and offerings or donation of any kind from anywhere."

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Bleeding customers dry


Bleeding customers dry

Bank customers across the country complain about arbitrary charges on their accounts. Apart from charging Commission on Turnover, banks also charge customers for almost every withdrawal made via their current accounts. Some customers also complain that their banks charge them for using ATM cards in their banks' satellite branches. SAMUEL AWOYINFA, ANNA OKON, NKARENYI UKONU and KEMI LAWAL report

Many bank customers do not feel comfortable with what they refer to as 'arbitrary deductions' being made on their accounts each time they withdraw money from their accounts. Apart from the Commission on Turnover charges, they say some other deductions are being made by some banks.

A cross-section of people who spoke to Sunday Punch complained about the numerous charges they pay to banks. These customers allege that their banks are milking them dry.

One of them, the General Manager, M.S. Bakare & Sons Ventures, Mr. Mohammed Bakare, says there are some arbitrary charges like 'withdrawal on the counter' and 'withdrawal with ATM cards,' which should not arise because the banks also charge COT.    

He states, "Many of these banks are ripping off their customers through these sundry charges. At my bank, I paid for ATM card and for every N20,000 withdrawal I make with the card, the bank charges N100.  Even when the Federal Government asked banks to stop deducting N100 for ATM withdrawal, up till, November 25, the bank still charged N100 on my account as usual.

"As for COT, I pay N5,000 on every N1m withdrawal. Again, if one's cheque is returned for lack of confirmation from the account owner, it is another N5,000 penalty. Even when they have your telephone numbers, they will not call you for confirmation, just because of the N5,000 they want to deduct. Such deductions would be justified if it were a dud cheque.

"Furthermore, one still has to pay for a chequebook each time one exhausts a pack. And, depending on number of leaves, one may pay as much as N1,500 for a cheque book of 50 leaves. I believe this is rather exorbitant, considering the number of customers these banks have.

"The Central Bank of Nigeria must extend its banking reform to these areas and prevail on the banks to remove the COT and some — if not all — of these charges."

A civil servant, Mr. Akinyemi Olusegun, faults the banks for their failure to stop charging N100 on ATM withdrawals. He also decries 'the frustration' they put customers through whenever the ATMs don't dispense money and customers are debited. He blames the CBN and other monitoring agencies for failing to check the excesses of these banks.

He says, "It is annoying for banks to charge N100 for every N20,000 withdrawn via the ATMs, considering that in some banks, customers can only withdraw a maximum of N60,000 per day via the ATM. As far as I am concerned, these charges are exorbitant. It is even more annoying when the ATMs fail to dispense money and the customer's account is still debited. It takes at least seven working days to get the money returned to one's account.

"I can't forget this year's Workers' Day when I visited three different ATM points and none was functional. Despite the disappointment, my account was debited to the tune of N60,000. I had to enter into official correspondence with the bank before my money was returned 14 days later.

"All this arbitrariness is happening because the regulatory agencies are not doing their job. What is the job of CBN? What about the Senate and House committees on banking and finance? All these anomalies drive people away from saving money with these banks, and they will rather keep their money elsewhere. Regulatory authorities must wake up to their responsibilities."

The CEO, Centop Global Services, Mr. Innocent Ogah, also notes that banking in the country is not transparent, and says this provides a leeway for them to rip off their customers through all manner of deductions.

He states, "In every organisation, there are procedures. Banks are supposed to set out the charges and specify what they are meant for, even if it means posting them on the notice board for customers to read.

"For instance, the Power Holding Company of Nigeria's bills specify the amount charged for Value Added Tax and the amount charged for every unit of light one consumes. That way, you can do your calculations but banks don't do that, they just send you alerts notifying you of amounts deducted from your account. I think they also charge N5 for the alert.

"They are not transparent. In the past, they used to publish the cost per mail or per service; but now, they just leave everything blank. When customers are overcharged and they lodge a complaint, the banks apologise and reverse it, blaming it on internal problem. 

"What happens to people who don't have a voice and cannot complain or who are too ignorant to understand?  Even the N5 rate, when you calculate the millions of depositors that regularly pay all these unexplained charges, it amounts to a rip off."

A researcher, Mr. Olusegun Sogbamu, agrees that many Nigerian banks are known to fleece their customers. The amount might be small but over time, he says, it adds up.

His grouse, "I have noticed that whenever  I make an online transfer from my current account to my savings account and I look through my statement, I will see that sums as little as three, four or five naira have been deducted.

"I really do not know what those charges are for and I do not think I will ever know because banks coin all sorts of terms to describe them.

"The other time, during an over-the-counter transaction, one of the tellers tried to convince me to deposit the money in my current account. I insisted on depositing it in my savings account. When I asked if I would be charged for intra-account transfer, he replied in the negative.

"When I told him my previous experiences, he said it was unusual. He then asked me to lodge a formal complaint by writing to the headquarters. For me, this was another way of spending N5 to trace 50 kobo. Why should the process to obtain money from me be a million times easier than the process to get a refund from them?"

An oil and gas consultant, Mr. Justice Obasogie, is equally miffed that some banks are yet to stop deductions on customers' accounts after ATM withdrawals. He also decries what he describes as "small, small deductions."

He says, "All these banks have small, small charges they deduct from customers' accounts whether one likes it or not. Some of these charges cannot be explained and it seems like the more money you have in your account, the higher they deduct.

"Though the N100 ATM fee was abolished over two weeks ago, many of them have refused to effect it in their operations. And woe betide you if you borrow from a bank; I can assure you that the hidden charges are even more than the interest you would pay."

The CEO, Merit Healthcare Ltd. and chairman, National Association of Industrial Pharmacists, Mr. Lolu Ojo, who has accounts with three major banks, complains about some deductions he experiences. "I experience exorbitant and unnecessary bank charges which include but not limited to interest rate, management fee, facility fee, insurance fee, legal fee, etc.

"I have made my complaints known to the appropriate quarters and all I get are flimsy excuses. They are also well known for delay tactics which wear one out till one gets tired of asking.

"Fortunately, since the CBN directive to banks to stop inter-banks ATM charge, I do not get charged any more. Almost all the banks I use are the same in terms of lack of support for entrepreneurial endeavour. The role of the bank as an engine room for industrial growth has long been abandoned. They lend only to themselves and their rich friends. In attitude and action, they care less whether you grow or not. The interest rate and ancillary charges are killing. We are practically working for the banks!," he states.

However, CEO, Zaris Fashion Academy, Ms Theresa Aggreh, says the bank she uses has not thrust any exorbitant charges on her and so she is not complaining.

She says, "So far, I have not experienced any exorbitant and unnecessary bank charges to warrant me making any complaints. Good enough, since the CBN directive to banks to stop inter-banks ATM charge, I do not get charged anymore."

An economic analyst and CEO, Spec Oil Nigeria Limited, Mr. Taiwo Ayodeji, also warns customers to be wary of the terms applicable to the type of accounts they are opening before putting pen to paper, so as to avoid unnecessary charges/deductions.  

He explains, "Though bank charges are a norm globally, this does not mean that one cannot complain if there are arbitrary charges. 

"Also, when you are opening an account with a bank, you need to know the terms and conditions of the account, but some people don't ask questions. They just go ahead and open the account. There are some current accounts on which a COT of N5 applies per a certain amount of money; just as there are some that charge lesser amounts.

"For those kinds of charges, there must be a minimum amount of money in your account that you cannot withdraw.  When you have a bad cheque, the bank will charge you; when you overdraw your account, the bank will charge you; if you have an ATM card, they will charge you; when you withdraw with your ATM card from another bank's machine, your account will be charged as appropriate.

"One only hopes the regulatory authorities will wake up to their responsibilities and stop the arbitrary charges."

On how to address these numerous charges, the spokesperson of the Central Bank of Nigeria, Mr. Ugochukwu Okoroafor, encourages customers to channel their complaints to the Consumer Protection department of the CBN.

In a text message sent to our correspondent, he said, "They should send their complaints to our Consumer Protection Department. It is one of the new departments set up by the CBN."


Original Page: http://www.punchng.com/feature/bleeding-customers-dry/

Bleeding customers dry


Bleeding customers dry

Bank customers across the country complain about arbitrary charges on their accounts. Apart from charging Commission on Turnover, banks also charge customers for almost every withdrawal made via their current accounts. Some customers also complain that their banks charge them for using ATM cards in their banks' satellite branches. SAMUEL AWOYINFA, ANNA OKON, NKARENYI UKONU and KEMI LAWAL report

Many bank customers do not feel comfortable with what they refer to as 'arbitrary deductions' being made on their accounts each time they withdraw money from their accounts. Apart from the Commission on Turnover charges, they say some other deductions are being made by some banks.

A cross-section of people who spoke to Sunday Punch complained about the numerous charges they pay to banks. These customers allege that their banks are milking them dry.

One of them, the General Manager, M.S. Bakare & Sons Ventures, Mr. Mohammed Bakare, says there are some arbitrary charges like 'withdrawal on the counter' and 'withdrawal with ATM cards,' which should not arise because the banks also charge COT.    

He states, "Many of these banks are ripping off their customers through these sundry charges. At my bank, I paid for ATM card and for every N20,000 withdrawal I make with the card, the bank charges N100.  Even when the Federal Government asked banks to stop deducting N100 for ATM withdrawal, up till, November 25, the bank still charged N100 on my account as usual.

"As for COT, I pay N5,000 on every N1m withdrawal. Again, if one's cheque is returned for lack of confirmation from the account owner, it is another N5,000 penalty. Even when they have your telephone numbers, they will not call you for confirmation, just because of the N5,000 they want to deduct. Such deductions would be justified if it were a dud cheque.

"Furthermore, one still has to pay for a chequebook each time one exhausts a pack. And, depending on number of leaves, one may pay as much as N1,500 for a cheque book of 50 leaves. I believe this is rather exorbitant, considering the number of customers these banks have.

"The Central Bank of Nigeria must extend its banking reform to these areas and prevail on the banks to remove the COT and some — if not all — of these charges."

A civil servant, Mr. Akinyemi Olusegun, faults the banks for their failure to stop charging N100 on ATM withdrawals. He also decries 'the frustration' they put customers through whenever the ATMs don't dispense money and customers are debited. He blames the CBN and other monitoring agencies for failing to check the excesses of these banks.

He says, "It is annoying for banks to charge N100 for every N20,000 withdrawn via the ATMs, considering that in some banks, customers can only withdraw a maximum of N60,000 per day via the ATM. As far as I am concerned, these charges are exorbitant. It is even more annoying when the ATMs fail to dispense money and the customer's account is still debited. It takes at least seven working days to get the money returned to one's account.

"I can't forget this year's Workers' Day when I visited three different ATM points and none was functional. Despite the disappointment, my account was debited to the tune of N60,000. I had to enter into official correspondence with the bank before my money was returned 14 days later.

"All this arbitrariness is happening because the regulatory agencies are not doing their job. What is the job of CBN? What about the Senate and House committees on banking and finance? All these anomalies drive people away from saving money with these banks, and they will rather keep their money elsewhere. Regulatory authorities must wake up to their responsibilities."

The CEO, Centop Global Services, Mr. Innocent Ogah, also notes that banking in the country is not transparent, and says this provides a leeway for them to rip off their customers through all manner of deductions.

He states, "In every organisation, there are procedures. Banks are supposed to set out the charges and specify what they are meant for, even if it means posting them on the notice board for customers to read.

"For instance, the Power Holding Company of Nigeria's bills specify the amount charged for Value Added Tax and the amount charged for every unit of light one consumes. That way, you can do your calculations but banks don't do that, they just send you alerts notifying you of amounts deducted from your account. I think they also charge N5 for the alert.

"They are not transparent. In the past, they used to publish the cost per mail or per service; but now, they just leave everything blank. When customers are overcharged and they lodge a complaint, the banks apologise and reverse it, blaming it on internal problem. 

"What happens to people who don't have a voice and cannot complain or who are too ignorant to understand?  Even the N5 rate, when you calculate the millions of depositors that regularly pay all these unexplained charges, it amounts to a rip off."

A researcher, Mr. Olusegun Sogbamu, agrees that many Nigerian banks are known to fleece their customers. The amount might be small but over time, he says, it adds up.

His grouse, "I have noticed that whenever  I make an online transfer from my current account to my savings account and I look through my statement, I will see that sums as little as three, four or five naira have been deducted.

"I really do not know what those charges are for and I do not think I will ever know because banks coin all sorts of terms to describe them.

"The other time, during an over-the-counter transaction, one of the tellers tried to convince me to deposit the money in my current account. I insisted on depositing it in my savings account. When I asked if I would be charged for intra-account transfer, he replied in the negative.

"When I told him my previous experiences, he said it was unusual. He then asked me to lodge a formal complaint by writing to the headquarters. For me, this was another way of spending N5 to trace 50 kobo. Why should the process to obtain money from me be a million times easier than the process to get a refund from them?"

An oil and gas consultant, Mr. Justice Obasogie, is equally miffed that some banks are yet to stop deductions on customers' accounts after ATM withdrawals. He also decries what he describes as "small, small deductions."

He says, "All these banks have small, small charges they deduct from customers' accounts whether one likes it or not. Some of these charges cannot be explained and it seems like the more money you have in your account, the higher they deduct.

"Though the N100 ATM fee was abolished over two weeks ago, many of them have refused to effect it in their operations. And woe betide you if you borrow from a bank; I can assure you that the hidden charges are even more than the interest you would pay."

The CEO, Merit Healthcare Ltd. and chairman, National Association of Industrial Pharmacists, Mr. Lolu Ojo, who has accounts with three major banks, complains about some deductions he experiences. "I experience exorbitant and unnecessary bank charges which include but not limited to interest rate, management fee, facility fee, insurance fee, legal fee, etc.

"I have made my complaints known to the appropriate quarters and all I get are flimsy excuses. They are also well known for delay tactics which wear one out till one gets tired of asking.

"Fortunately, since the CBN directive to banks to stop inter-banks ATM charge, I do not get charged any more. Almost all the banks I use are the same in terms of lack of support for entrepreneurial endeavour. The role of the bank as an engine room for industrial growth has long been abandoned. They lend only to themselves and their rich friends. In attitude and action, they care less whether you grow or not. The interest rate and ancillary charges are killing. We are practically working for the banks!," he states.

However, CEO, Zaris Fashion Academy, Ms Theresa Aggreh, says the bank she uses has not thrust any exorbitant charges on her and so she is not complaining.

She says, "So far, I have not experienced any exorbitant and unnecessary bank charges to warrant me making any complaints. Good enough, since the CBN directive to banks to stop inter-banks ATM charge, I do not get charged anymore."

An economic analyst and CEO, Spec Oil Nigeria Limited, Mr. Taiwo Ayodeji, also warns customers to be wary of the terms applicable to the type of accounts they are opening before putting pen to paper, so as to avoid unnecessary charges/deductions.  

He explains, "Though bank charges are a norm globally, this does not mean that one cannot complain if there are arbitrary charges. 

"Also, when you are opening an account with a bank, you need to know the terms and conditions of the account, but some people don't ask questions. They just go ahead and open the account. There are some current accounts on which a COT of N5 applies per a certain amount of money; just as there are some that charge lesser amounts.

"For those kinds of charges, there must be a minimum amount of money in your account that you cannot withdraw.  When you have a bad cheque, the bank will charge you; when you overdraw your account, the bank will charge you; if you have an ATM card, they will charge you; when you withdraw with your ATM card from another bank's machine, your account will be charged as appropriate.

"One only hopes the regulatory authorities will wake up to their responsibilities and stop the arbitrary charges."

On how to address these numerous charges, the spokesperson of the Central Bank of Nigeria, Mr. Ugochukwu Okoroafor, encourages customers to channel their complaints to the Consumer Protection department of the CBN.

In a text message sent to our correspondent, he said, "They should send their complaints to our Consumer Protection Department. It is one of the new departments set up by the CBN."


Original Page: http://www.punchng.com/feature/bleeding-customers-dry/

Saturday, December 8, 2012

I Was Destined To Sing


I Was Destined To Sing

Mama Fasoyin

Mrs. D.A Fashoyin, a member of the acclaimed singing group, Good Women's Choir, tells Entertainment Cafe the story of their mega-hit, Odun Nlo S'opin, and explains why church titles are of little importance

How do you feel about the enduring nature of Odun Nlo Sopin?

It's been great. The fact that it has touched so many lives gives us great joy. More so, the demand for the song hasn't stopped till date and I've lost count of the number of copies that we've sold.

You must have made a lot of money from the sales of the album.

It doesn't work that way. The money from the albums belongs to the group and that's what we use for movement here and there.

Did you envisage that the song would be a big hit?

Not at all. I don't compose our songs, the group does.  We all sat down and wrote the song just like every other song, but God just made the song what it is today.

What difficulties did you encounter while recording Odun Nlo Sopin?

We did not have any difficulty whatsoever.

Wasn't it your first album?

No. Our first album was Halleluyah O Halle, which was released in April 1977. Odun Nlo Sopin  was released in 1979. Till date, we have about twenty-five albums to our credit.

Is every member of the choir still alive?

Of course, yes. We are all hale and hearty.

Does it mean you have not gone through any challenge over the years?

There isn't any gospel musician that doesn't have challenges because the devil will not want you to release any album since he believes that you might be killing him indirectly. So, fighting the devil has been our greatest challenge.

Where has this song taken the group to?

I just returned from Jerusalem, that's the only time I've been outside the country.

How rewarding has singing been for you?

We don't record for money and when you invite us, we don't charge.  As I said, the money is used for the gospel.

When should we expect your next album?

We're releasing one this week. It contains live performances of every member of the choir when we celebrated the 30th anniversary of the release of  Odun Nlo Sopin. We are releasing a documentary on the group.

How have you been able to cope with your colleagues?

We're all dedicated and we know what we're doing so, there hasn't been any problem with anybody.

How supportive was your husband?

He's been very supportive. He was the home-keeper those days whenever I wasn't at home and he's still alive. I live with one of my children in Lagos now.

Were you born in Ibadan or you moved there?

I was born in Oyo, but my husband is from Ibadan.

What would you have done if you hadn't become a musician?

I believe I was destined to become a musician because I started singing since I was very young. I taught in a school for many years before facing music squarely.

Are your children into music?

They also have interest in singing because they were my back-up singers when I recorded two singles recently.

Is there future for gospel music in the country?

If people can stick to the things of God, I see a great future.

What is your advice to upcoming gospel artistes?

They should study the scripture very well and pray very hard because the devil will stand in their way. They shouldn't just release any nonsense; they should also study their environment before releasing songs.

Do you have any regret in life?

Not at all. This is because I have Christ.

Are you fulfilled?

Whenever I listen to our songs being played on the streets, I feel fulfilled and joy fills my heart.

At 73, do you still have any ambition?

I had only one assignment when I was leaving Ibadan, but when I got to Lagos, I had eight others added to it. So, I'm starting all over again.

What are those assignments?

I attend Daystar Christian Centre and I'm the Golden Mothers' President there. I'm a distributor of Word for Today. I'm an intercessor and I also act… I can't remember others now.

What do you want Evangelist D. A. Fasoyin to be remembered for?

Who told you that I'm a Lady Evangelist? Who ordained me? All those titles won't take me to heaven so why should I stick to such? Anyway, I want to be remembered as one who impacted so much into people's lives.

—Damilare Okunola


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Monday, December 3, 2012

Pope opens twitter account

VATICAN CITY (AFP) – Pope Benedict XVI will join Twitter from December 12, with regular tweets in eight languages from the account @pontifex just in time for Christmas, the Vatican said on Monday.


"The first tweets will be answers to questions sent to the pope on matters of faith. The public can start sending them starting now," the Vatican said.


The account already has 2,435 followers, with numbers rising quickly immediately after the announcement. An introductory message read: "Welcome to the official Twitter page of His Holiness Pope Benedict XVI."


The tweets will be in Arabic, English, French, German, Italian, Polish, Portuguese and Spanish and more languages could be added in future.


"The pope's presence on Twitter is a concrete expression of his conviction that the Church must be present in the digital arena," the Vatican said in a statement.


It added that Benedict wanted "to ensure that the good news of Jesus Christ and the teaching of his Church is permeating the forum of exchange and dialogue that is being created by social media".


Several leading Vatican prelates are already regular tweeters including Cardinal Gianfranco Ravasi, head of the Pontifical Council for Culture, as the tradition-bound institution tries to reach a younger global audience.

Saturday, December 1, 2012

How to Shake it off and take a step up,A STORY YOU MUST READ


One day a farmer's donkey fell down into a well. The animal cried piteously for hours as the farmer tried to figure out what to do. Finally, he decided the animal was old, and the well needed to be covered up anyway; it just wasn't worth it to retrieve the donkey.


He invited all his neighbors to come over and help him. They all grabbed a shovel and began to shovel dirt into the well. At first, the donkey realized what was happening and cried horribly. Then, to everyone's amazement he quieted down.




A few shovel loads later, the farmer finally looked down the well. He was astonished at what he saw. With each shovel of dirt that hit his back, the donkey was doing something amazing. He would shake it off and take a step up.


As the farmer's neighbors continued to shovel dirt on top of the animal, he would shake it off and take a step up. Pretty soon, everyone was amazed as the donkey stepped up over the edge of the well and happily trotted off!


MORAL :

Life is going to shovel dirt on you, all kinds of dirt. The trick to getting out of the well is to shake it off and take a step up. Each of our troubles is a steppingstone. We can get out of the deepest wells just by not stopping, never giving up! Shake it off and take a step up.


Remember the five simple rules to be happy:


1. Free your heart from hatred - Forgive.


2. Free your mind from worries - Most never happens.


3. Live simply and appreciate what you have.


4. Give more.


5. Expect less from people but more from God.