MY BROTHER, DON'T MARRY A WOMAN ANXIOUS TO GET MARRIED WRITTEN BY JEROME YAOVI ONIPEDE. POSTED IN GET CAPTIVATED

My dear Brother, whoever you may be and where ever you are,

Please don't get married to a woman that is anxious to get Married, because despite the fact that she may have loved to get married at some point, and with the intention of been happily married, she wants to be married now, not for the purpose of marriage, but to deal with unresolved issues in her life at the moment like:

1) Her clock is ticking, and she just has to do it now
2) All her friends are married (which is usually not true), and so she has to be married too
3) Pressure from Family Members about her getting married will stop
4) She will move out of her father's house where she is ashamed to be till now
5) She is very lonely
6) etc, etc

A woman like this is not FIT for marriage emotionally, psychologically, spiritually and mentally. She is FULL OF ANXIETY at the moment, and can't chose you for love, but as a MEANS of solving Personal Conflicts in her life. Both of you may eventually find out that you were never meant to be together, but just a case of "WHAT ANXIETY HAS JOINED TOGETHER".

She needs to find PEACE through Counseling. If you really love her, encourage her to go for Counseling, and FIND PEACE IN GOD, HERSELF, and with HER WORLD, before she considers Marriage again.

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